Our online purchases and subscriptions and services are associated with accounts linked to an email address. Be careful when you set up accounts and make purchases! These are turning into long-term relationships that need to be right.
A concrete example: buy Kindle ebooks from Amazon using the email address of the person who will read them.
I didn’t understand the consequences of that when I bought a Kindle for my wife a couple of years ago. Here’s the way the Amazon world works. Follow along and you’ll understand my wife’s Amazing Vanishing Library trick.
I bought a Kindle for my wife – a loving, thoughtful gift that she deeply appreciated, so much that it quickly became her preferred way to read books. In a couple of years, she accumulated a collection of Kindle books that brought her laughter and tears and created memories that came back every time she opened the Kindle and looked down the list of titles – exactly the same feeling that a book lover feels staring at books lined up on a shelf.
This was what my wife saw in her mind when she opened her Kindle every day.
I set up my wife’s Kindle on my account, our only Amazon account at that time, the one linked to my email address. Why not? It was convenient.
Later she set up her own Amazon account so she could shop and see “Recommendations” and books that are “Inspired by your browsing history” without seeing my choices, which tend to involve spaceships shooting a lot of really big guns at each other. But we kept buying Kindle books on my account because, hey, that’s the way the Kindle was registered.
In the last few months I’ve started occasionally buying Kindle books and reading them on my computer and phone. It seems likely that I’ll have my own Kindle eventually.
My books started showing up on my wife’s Kindle like unwanted intruders. Without knowing it, we had set up a single bookshelf when we really needed two.
I did some research and spoke to Amazon representatives to confirm what I suspected.
We still own the books, she can still read them. Amazon will soon announce a way to loan Kindle books for short periods, so she’ll be able to read them on her Kindle instead of having to borrow mine. This isn’t a crisis.
At the moment, though, when my wife looks at her Kindle, this is how it looks. Over time, it will fill up and be even more personal. Right now it seems sad.
This will assume more significance now that Amazon allows Kindle books to be given as a gift. A Kindle book can be sent to anyone with an email address. If you send a Kindle book as a gift to a Kindle user, they’ll only get it on their Kindle if you send it to the email address associated with their library! Send it to the wrong address and it won’t reach the Kindle.
Think about the accounts that you set up with our online friends! You may be living with them for a long time to come.
December 7th, 2010 at 11:17 am
Great info! So far I am the only one in the house with a Kindle, but I suspect this info will be useful in the future as my husband and I share an e-mail address.
June 20th, 2011 at 12:59 pm
This was GREAT information and certainly something I didn’t even realize. I recently (2 days ago) purchased my friend’s Kindle. I was getting ready to deregister it from her name into mine. I “assumed” one of the books I read that she already purchased would still be there; there’s a ton of books it references, that I’d like to refer to. Guess I better write those down before I deregister the Kindle to me!!!
October 19th, 2011 at 10:48 am
Same experiences – exactly! I haven’t pulled the trigger yet but man they make this tough!
November 27th, 2011 at 7:43 am
We share 6 Kindles on one account (with Prime) and it is great. A true “family plan.”
January 6th, 2012 at 1:25 am
This is an absolutely genius post! So helpful and well-written and loved the bookcase images too! Saved us from making the same mistake.
Thanks
Charlotte
January 10th, 2012 at 9:56 am
MY partner bought my kindle for me, but he sadly passed away a couple of weeks ago. I need to register the kindle in my name,but I would like to keep the books that I have already read. Is this possible? Maybe I could keep his name but arrange to pay for the books myself.
January 10th, 2012 at 6:00 pm
I don’t know what Amazon would do. To them the account is just an email address and a password, so you don’t have to do anything if you keep using the same email address to buy books from Amazon. If you don’t already have your own Amazon account, you might be able to simply update the name and email address in the Amazon account page, but you might want to check with Amazon to be sure there aren’t any unexpected side effects. Good luck!